Ladies don’t want to be swept off their feet
I really enjoyed reading Kaitlin Snook’s article on Friday titled “Guys, sweep her off her feet.” However, I have to disagree with her arguments. I am a student at CSU. I have gone to CSU parties, and you are right. you can hook up with girls at parties. But that is not me.
I would rather meet a girl, go on a date and do the “date” thing. But I have noticed a problem: Girls, in my opinion, seem to shy away from a guy who wants to indulge in a meaningful couple of hours of dinner and conversation on a Friday night.
Last weekend I went to a couple of parties with some friends and tried to have a casual conversation with a couple of females who I found attractive. Basically they just kind of gave me a look and walked off. The funny thing is, I wasn’t surprised, so I just laughed it off and discussed it with some friends of mine.
This sounds cocky, but I feel as though I am a good catch compared to other guys who go to parties strictly on the basis of trying to “get some,” and when you look at me, you see a good-looking guy. I’m a student-athlete, take good care of myself and have confidence, but it’s just not what the females seem to be looking for.
Must just be me, but girls seem to have too many options and they are no longer looking for a guy like me.